The death of a child, sibling, parent, or grandchild – at any age, from any circumstance – is indeed one of the cruelest blows that life has to offer. The journey through this grief is long and difficult. In the early moments, we may find ourselves in an all-consuming pain beyond description. It can be tough to live our everyday lives, challenging to think about anything other than our loss. Even happy memories may bring us pain for a time.
People do not “get over” the death of a child, sibling, parent,or grandchild, nor “snap out of it” as the outside world often thinks we should. This loss is not an illness from which we recover. It is a life-altering change that forces us to build a new life for ourselves and our families, in a world that no longer includes our loved one.
Remember that you are not the only one who has gone through this profound loss and grief. The grieving process can be made a little easier with support. A variety of grieving support resources are available, many of which are online. Below, you’ll find the best grief-related resources in Collier and on the Web for children, parents, spouses, siblings, friends, acquaintances, coworkers and employers.
Project HELP, Inc.
Project HELP works with dignity and compassion to ease the pain of those who have been affected by rape, violence, crime or loss of a loved one.
239-649-1404
24/7 Crisis Helpline: 239-262-7227
projecthelp@projecthelpnaples.org www.projecthelpnaples.org
No Cost
AVOW
Avow provides caring grief and loss support services to both children and adults. Services are open to anyone in the community, and include support groups, individual loss support, and community memorial events.
239-261-4404
bereavement@avowcares.org, AvowCares.org
No Cost
Valerie’s House
Tucked away in a cozy “home away from home” in Naples, Valerie’s House is the only organization in Southwest Florida with its sole mission to help children grieve the loss of a loved one. Valerie’s House is a special place where children connect with one another and learn the tools to heal after they have experienced the death of someone they love.
239-204-5804 | info@ValeriesHouseSWFL.org, ValeriesHouseSWFL.org
No Cost
The Compassionate Friends
The Compassionate Friends is a peer to peer Group. Their Chapter has 2 meetings a month. They also provide individual phone support, again peer to peer.
Local 239-690-7801 National 1-877-969-0010
info@tcfswfl.org, tcfswfl.org
Compassionatefriends.org
No Cost
Surviving After a Suicide Loss (Support group of Project H.U.G.S.)
For over 30 years their free weekly peer run Suicide Survivor Support Group offers a safe place for members to share their grief and to receive and provide mutual support.
239-253-6600
info@survivingafterasuicide.com
Survivingafterasuicide.com
No Cost
VITAS Healthcare
VITAS provides bereavement services at not cost to caregivers, family and friends of Vitas patients, as well as to anyone in the community who is grieving.
239-649-2300
VITAS.com – No Cost
The Healing Hearts Infant Bereavement Group is a private group for those who have experienced the death of a baby. It is a place where invited members can share stories, and other information about their precious child. We welcome members to provide support to others and seek support during difficult times. Meetings occur first Tuesday of each month from 7:00 to 9:00 p.m through an online format. If you are interested in joining our online meeting on the first Tuesday of every month at 7 PM healinghearts@cribsforkids.org.
Hope Healthcare
Our unique Bereaved Mom’s group provides a safe haven for mothers and grandmothers who have experienced the loss of a child or grandchild within the last two years. You will feel heard and understood, as your fellow group members have walked your path. You will learn from their experience, feeling supported and accepted. 1st and 3rd Monday of every month at 11AM, held virtually on Zoom. Advanced Registration Required. Phone: 239-985-7716 | Email: lorrie.mccann@hopehcs.org
Matty's Corner | Local Stillbirth Support Group
You, as a parent, are not alone. We are here to provide a safe and supportive environment for bereaved parents who have experienced the loss of a child through stillbirth. We offer monthly, in-person meetings where you can connect with others who have gone through a similar journey. Meetings will be held the first Tuesday of each month from 5:30-7pm. We are sorry we had to meet this way, but we are glad you're here. Please visit rememberingmatty.com for more information and how to join our peer support group.
Community memorial programs include:
Bereaved Parents of the USA
This national, non-profit self-help group offers many resources for bereaved parents to help them rebuild their lives.
bereavedparentsusa.org
Candlelighters Childhood Cancer Foundation
Families don’t have to face childhood cancer without support. The Childhood Cancer Foundation provides emotional, educational and practical assistance for families in need.
candle.org/family-services
CJ First Candle
This organization provides bereavement support to families who have suffered the loss of a baby from SIDS, SUID or stillbirth.
firstcandle.org
Parent Grief Support Directory
Find a wide array of local, national and international grief support resources for grieving parents.
live-evermore.org
MISS Foundation
For families who have experienced the death of a child, find grief resources and online support forums which are fully moderated for safe, caring interactions with others. missfoundation.org
Perinatal Hospice and Palliative Care Resources for Parents
These resources are for parents who have been told by medical professionals that their unborn baby will likely die before or after delivery.
perinatalhospice.org/resources-for-parents.html
The TEARS Foundation
This non-profit organization offers compassionate financial assistance to grieving parents who have lost a baby and need to make final arrangements.
thetearsfoundation.org
The Compassionate Friends – Supporting Families After a Child Dies
This non-profit organization exists to provide friendship, understanding, and hope to those going through the natural grieving process.
compassionatefriends.org
“Ways to Help With Grief,” July 2008
1. Let Others Help You
• Tap bonds with friends, teachers and counselors
• Trust others to help
• Share feelings and pain
2. Remember It’s Normal To Feel What Seems Abnormal
• It is common to feel that you’re ‘going crazy’
• Personal disorganization is common
• Anger and fear will be present
3. Express Thoughts and Feelings
• Words are most helpful and least harmful
• Crying is healthy – it is ok to cry
• Do not fear losing control
4. Do Not Try to Avoid Grief
• Avoiding grief adds misery
• Lean into your feelings
• Grief postponed is acceptance postponed
5. Reach Out
• Sharing is our responsibility
• Do not assume others know what you need
• Choose to be healed
6. Help Others
• Memorialize
• Do more than expected
• Volunteer
7. Rise Above Bitterness
• Bitterness displaces blame
• Grudges deplete energy
• Forgive self and others
8. Expect to Regress
• Grief is erratic
• Special times can be hard
9. Maintain Physical Strength
• Have healthy eating and sleeping habits
• Run, play, and participate in sports
• Find ways to relax
10. Deal With Your Needs and Immediate Problems
• Decide what your needs are
• Seek healthy ways to meet your needs
There are no timetables for grief.
The bereaved do not process through “stages” in an orderly and predictable fashion. No one will be “done” with grief; by contrast, you will process the grief individually and at your own pace, folding it into your life in a way that becomes more manageable over time.
Grief must be addressed.
This grief cannot be avoided, ignored, or put away. You must go through it in order to emerge on the other side. As much as you may not be able to believe it now, your grief will shift and become less all-consuming as time goes by, and you will smile and find joy again. But right now you must follow your instincts and allow your heart, mind, and body to grieve.
Grieving requires patience and acceptance.
Grief work from the death of a child, sibling, or grandchild is a slow process. Be gentle and patient with yourself and your family. Allow yourself to cry, to grieve, and to retell stories as often as needed and for as long as you need to. You will never forget your loved one; he or she will be with you in your heart and memories for as long as you live.
Information about Death Certificates please click here
What to say or not to say to grievers – by Surviving After a Suicide Loss (Support Group of Project H.U.G.S)
Find a downloadable version of Collier County Bereavement/Grief Resources in English, Spanish, and Creole.
CONTACT INFORMATION!
Phone: 239-624-4033
Email: safeandhealthychildrenscoalition@nchmd.org
Address: c/o NCH Healthcare System P.O Box 234 Naples, FL 34106
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